My personal opinion is that what comes around, goes around. Do unto others and it SHALL be done unto you. I believe in the GOLDEN RULE “Do UNTO OTHERS”. No matter what they have DONE to you, as Jesus said (paraphrasing) If you get slapped on the cheek, turn your other cheek for him to slap, also!
“But I tell you, Do not resist an evil person. If someone strikes you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also” Matthew 5:39
My favorite saying of Jesus is:
Jesus answered him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one goes to the Father except through me.John 14:6
Life is like a wheel, and we are always riding around and around…Indeed, what comes around goes around 🙂